I’m writing today about something I’ve been thinking about for a while but have not known how to put to words. A few weeks ago, I attended a wedding. After dinner, the woman seated beside me at the table remarked that now that she had eaten her “protein and vegetables,” it was time to go join the dancing. I hear friends describe how they ate their “protein,”or how they make sure to get the little ones at their tables to eat their protein. It’s like saying you ate your “produce” instead of your tangerine. Or your “fat” instead of your peanuts. People don’t say that. But I am hearing people say that they ate their protein all the time.

To be clear, what I am seeing is that folks are not identifying specific foods by their actual names. Instead of saying that they ate scrambled eggs, wings or drumsticks, chops or burgers, they are grouping them under the heading of “protein.” The woman at the wedding did not say that she ate the steak on her plate. She said she ate her protein. So I ask myself why? What is she really saying? What is happening here? And why?

Are people saying they believe that this portion of the meal is more important than the rest of it? Are they driven by concerns about cost? Is it because, excepting legumes, high-protein foods are usually more expensive than, say, grains and vegetables? 

No one in my family lacks for protein. They all get enough protein, and maybe even more than enough. If, for example, the little ones were to eat the tips off 8 spears of asparagus, followed by a few spoonfuls of rice, and call it dinner, nothing would change. They would still be well nourished. I don’t feel any need to lean on them to eat the protein on their plates. I’m not worried. 

I still don’t know why people are saying this, but I’m going to keep thinking about it. Does it harken back to a time when people were hungry and did not get sufficient protein? Is it because protein is filling, and they are trying to stave off hunger in the hours to come? Is it related to attempts at weight control?

When I look at people who regularly eat lots of greens and other produce, I see a kind of vibrancy in their faces that is difficult for me to describe. But I know it when I see it. 

I’m going to say something that may sound radical. If it were me, I would not put the emphasis on protein. If I were being pressured to choose, I would put the emphasis on phytonutrients. Color. Antioxidant power. If I were choosing components instead of foods, I would go out of my way to get phytonutrients. That’s not because I think they are more important than protein. It’s because I think we are eating much less phytonutrient-rich food than we should, while at the same time most of us are eating more than enough high-protein food.

I am thinking about two things: one is variety. My small grandchildren love eggs cooked sunny-side up. Truth be told, from what I can see, it appears to be primarily a vehicle for eating “yolk gravy.” I’ve seen them dip all kinds of things in their yolks, most recently cucumber sticks and toast. My granddaughter asked her father if she could put leftover “mac & cheese” in the yolk. “Sure,” he said. Anything goes. 

The other is related to the fact that we are privileged to live in a community in which our pantries are full. My family eats sufficient protein, and it’s high-quality protein at that, partly because I suspect that we are consuming many more beans and legumes than the average American family. My protein status is not, therefore, of concern. And the likelihood is that the same is true for my friends and their families. If it’s not beans, it’s chicken, turkey, salmon, cod, tuna, sardines, burgers and probably the occasional steak. 

I think that we are underestimating the nutritional value of phytonutrients, as well as their benefits to feelings of satiety. Phytonutrients nourish us profoundly. If you’re experimenting with ways to keep yourself feeling full, it may be worth seeing how you feel after you eat a generous bowlful of spinach salad with ripe avocados, toasted sunflower seeds, and fragrant olive oil. You may be surprised to discover that it keeps you full longer than you thought would be the case.